Question #50132

Will a boy ever like me in high school?

I am a freshman girl... And i know most of you are prob gonna be like "you so young.. blah blah go study.." I care so much about school and I am a honors student/two-sport athlete so i am on the right track. But the thing is, I feel no boy ever likes me? Like every girl i know has a guy friend except me....

  • ?

Honestly, don't worry about it. I know this might seem like a big deal and it can be upsetting for you right now, but I promise in the long run everything will turn out fine and you will find a boy/boys who like you. You just need to focus on what you like in a person and if the boys at school are really worth your time. But again, it's no biggie. I was in the same situation as you when I was in highschool, and by the end I had maybe 3 guy friends... But eventually I knew it doens't really matter because at the end of the day it's the PERSON and their PERSONALITY you should be looking out for, regardless of their gender.

  • Anonymous

I think it's probably for the best that you don't. Not now. Boys around these ages tend to like girls for the wrong reasons anyway. They're mostly horny and are just excited about female bodies. I've rarely heard of guys these ages that actually truly care and capable of loving a girl. I mean it happens, but not very common. I feel like not dating or having a guy's attention is probably for your best interest. You have a lot going for you and a guy may distract you.

  • Blue Sky

You sound mature for your age and that's a good thing. So just be patient for the time being and you will get what your after. In the mean time, focus on being more outgoing and don't be afraid to make eye contact and smile at the guys you find attractive.